2 0 obj Clarence L. Haynes Jr. is a speaker, Bible teacher, and co-founder of The Bible Study Club. Her loving husband was sent home crying; he was left behind weeping. He came in expecting to find a joyous feast, Good, said David. becomes a bitter battle zone! Looking back over that night, the night that Saul wanted to kill him, David writes: Psalm 59:1-4 Deliver me from my enemies, O God; be my fortress against those who are attacking me.2 Deliver me from evildoers and save me from those who are after my blood. I Corinthians 13:4-8a Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth, it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres, love never fails. 9:15-21; 1 Sam. 1. This little rescue, saved the life of the future King of all Israel. What has happened? Three women are Davids wives and one is not a wife, not a concubine but she is invaluable to David. 31 December 1999. Series: David - A Man After God's Own Heart: Part 5: When A Woman Loves A Man (Mother's Day . Michal is on her way back to David. Rise Up, O Judge of the Earth. VxI@h=\* @~i:_%+z B)_ but is necessary theologically, for Gods rejection of Saul precluded a descendant of his ever ruling over Israel. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. 4 0 obj these had become concrete during the ten year period of separation. But David then abandoned Michal. love were fondly treasured in his mind. Its at the end of his life that we meet the fourth woman, Abishag. Scriptures tell us that Saul down deep understands this conflict he has with David is all about the Kingdom. Alter, Robert. Truth: Loving others well cooperates with Gods eternal purposes. But we do know God was using her to accomplish His plans. 7 Larry R. Helyer, Hero and Heroine Narratives in the Old Testament (Southern Baptist Journal of Theology, Vol. She was Davids first wife, and she loved him long before she despised him (1 Sam 18: 28). Michal wanted the life of royalty; she wanted nothing to do Saul uses Michal again. David accepts, but on one condition. But rather than leave Gods people with the fear and sting of judgment, the book of Micah concludes with the prophets call 3. intrigue, emotional peaks and valleys, danger, etc., all are a part of He heroically claimed her and the two Michals love for David was used by her father King Saul, to get rid of David. In fact, almost impossible, to separate, to compartmentalize all our problems. Women of Influence can affect their world, their loved ones, their neighbors, their workplace for good or bad. falling apart today. Sa 2:12ff). 2. You may have had or currently have a difficult father-in-law or mother-in-law, but this is the extreme: to have your father-in-law want to kill you. If you take away anything from Michals story, perhaps it will be this: Lynne is a member of Christ Church Midrand, Johannesburg, South Africa and serves within the Support Ministries Team in Griefshare. x\[o8~}X*bHN:vv-v8Mf.uj[EQ|B7etItuxP%kwY[j~xlyx7HFlwWDt.3Qf FY~?mk1rZu7y;;mt"7F-|xp&hKaM[ What I simply mean by this is not that you neglect or stop loving your father or mother, but your hierarchy of importance changes. He had returned Clines, David J. Episode 91: Israel at 75: Voices of Protest. When bitterness replaces affection there will be definite consequences When She Cant See The Loving Hand of God. This is such a critical lesson we can learn from Michal. 1 David: The Shepherd and The Warrior, SimpleToRemember.com; Judaism Online. Only in his presence can the bitterness and scorn fade, to be replaced by peace and joy. 2 Samuel 3:16 So Ish-Bosheth gave orders and had her taken away from her husband Paltiel son of Laish. Abigail stands out for a number of reasons. We dont know but perhaps the family was unable to pay the dowry. David is made King of Judah for 7 years while Michals brother, Sauls son, Ish-bosheth is King in Israel. She was used by her paranoid father, King Saul (1 Sam 18:20). Love is love. Michals love story highlights the all too familiar story of what on Michals queenly dignity because he had freely mixed with the commoners. Lets set the context of our story. We can learn from their successes and their mistakes how to be Gods influential women. "The Watcher at the Window: Cultural Poetics of a Biblical Motif." David had L. Kachelman, Jr. may be reproducted for non-commercial purposes at no b. Perhaps Bitterness corrupts how you see others. Or at church? Stop again for just a moment. with his first love, with the woman who had protected him in spite of personal The great affection these newly weds shared is evident in the 10:17-24 ). As the daughter of King Saul, Michal might have enjoyed a life of privilege. 13 feet tall, this larger-than-life physical size was intended to capture Davids colossal spiritual strength. How different Whether you are married or thinking about getting married, you should do everything you can to make sure your spouse knows that you truly love them. Michal serves as a warning against fixating on our suffering. I cant imagine how painful her words felt to him at this moment. In Pursuing her life passion to teach the Word of God, train leaders and connect people in community, Dianne Miller has dedicated years as a teaching leader in Bible Study Fellowship as well as directing Womens Ministries at the Church of the Apostles in Atlanta, Georgia and Northwest Bible Church, More. she could tolerate Davids piety no longer! This was about the way she had been treated. Exum, J. Cheryl. She was then used by her husband, as a means of escape from the clutches of the murderous Saul. Save 30%! The first lesson we learn from Michal is dont marry someone who is not in love with you. He was pleased because he saw it as an opportunity to possibly kill David. If there is only one lesson we can learn from Michal in the Bible, it is that true love is demonstrated by your actions. Only be valiant for me and fight the LORD's battles." For Saul thought, "Let not my hand be against him, but let the hand of the Philistines be against him." And David said to Saul, "Who am I, and who are my relatives, my father's clan in Israel, that I should . He is called a man after Gods own heart. But by these slave girls you spoke of, I will be held in honor.. Last thing we know about her, a tragic statement for her, living in her times. N-Kt#+X]n'%aKVb/Xc2. As we mentioned earlier, even when David requested her back, it doesnt seem to come from a sense of love for her but because he had paid a price to get her. The story up to this point was nothing short of tragic. Witchcraft, Spiritual Powers & New Life in Christ Jesus. Thanks for the good work you do. Ish-bosheth has a falling out with his army general Abner after which Abner then switches sides, offering his allegiance and his army to join with David. Even though he is now very much a stranger, David breaks up Michals marriage. His expectations must have been high but they were about to be This is what God intended in marriage when you go all the way back to Genesis. Michal was incensed as she shouted at David. But all Michal saw was the man who had used her, abandoned her, and embarrassed her, who was now proclaiming Gods praises in the street. The ark symbolised Gods presence in the midst of Israel. Love with my love. I realized that somehow, loving this particular person fits into Gods eternal purposes for me, and maybe for them too. imagine how David felt as he waited for Michal? One of the ways this is marked is by the way Michal is described early on, and how she is described now. This bitterness When Saul discovered that Michal was in love with David, he offered her to David, but only after David delivered 100 Philistine foreskins. Then the Philistines attacked, and the Lord gave David the victory over themnot once, but twice (5:17-25). One woman saved his life from certain death. warring parties (King Sauls troops and Davids troops) were united (2 Therefore its return meant the return of Gods presence to his people. 2 Samuel 3:13-14 Good, said David. People mistreat us so we turn our backs on Christ. Do you want to go deeper in your walk with the Lord but cant seem to overcome the stuff that keeps getting in the way? two young lovers were very much different. All would do well to remember this story and how It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of ones life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. They first met soon after Goliath had been killed. This just about sums up Michals life. endobj Michal lies to her father to conceal her involvement; that she took a great risk is indicated by the parallel to her brother Jonathan, whom Saul tries to kill for abetting David(1 Sam 20:3033). If we are going to sum up the lessons we can learn from Michal, I think it is clear to see how important a role love plays in a marital relationship. this narrative. Nevertheless, David succeeded in this process, and he and Michal were married. Like a pale and spindly sapling forever caught under a canopy of larger trees, Michal is emotionally trapped by the men around her: her father, King Saul and her husband, King David. Date of Writing: The Book of Micah was likely written between 735 and 700 B.C. As it was, she despised him for the very qualities that made him great, namely, devotion to the Lord and spontaneity in worship.[90]10. But then, later, her harsh words, flowing from a hard heart could not be taken back. The tragedy of Michal the joyous home filled with affection Copyright 2023, Bible Study Tools. However this romantic tale lacks the conclusion where the couple Socrates only laughed, "Michal and Merab." I have come to care deeply for these women who influenced Davids life and I look forward to meeting each of them; there must be so much more to their stories. bitterness was allowed to rule. They both want to protect David from their father, King Saul. His calm There is no clear reason why she despised him, so I would like to offer a possibility. Did she miss David? All rights reserved. Proverbs 12:18 Reckless words pierce like a sword But the tongue of the wise brings healing, Proverbs 18:21 The tongue has the power of life and deathAnd those who love it will eat its fruit. News reached To understand the point of my saying dont marry someone who is not in love with you, it requires us to look at the backstory and the reason David married Michal in the first place. SBJT 02:3, Fall 1998). What Michal did not see was the reason for Davids reckless abandonment. For her tragic story is not unlike many of our own. Here was her husband, the king no less, divesting himself of his royal robes and wholeheartedly celebrating God. Either way she is a vital part of Davids story; she is an important influence in his life. David, on the other hand, at this time, had 6 other wives. Weve got to remember people are impacted by our words. In homes where joy ought to reign, many are filled Is it possible she was angry because she was no longer the wife of Paltiel? Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. Love is not just about what you say with your mouth, but more importantly about what you do with your actions. This time, Saul gives him a way to pay the bride price: go to battle and bring back 100 Philistine foreskins and you can have my second daughter. This is part of the reason that the ultimate redeemer of the Jewish people and the world will descend from Davids line- he will be Messiah son of David.2. 2003. Saul likes this deal thinking David will probably die in battle. As the ark of the Lord was entering the City of David, Michal daughter of Saul watched from a window. David Marries Michal - Then Saul said to David, "Here is my elder daughter Merab. In a marital relationship, it is important to not only give love, but you want to know you are loved back as well. So, I came into a marriage with the thinking I could say anything that was true, or honest, or right even if it was harsh and critical. Why was she so upset over his clothes? Therefore Michal the daughter of Saul had no child unto the day of her death. When Saul realized that the Lord was with David and that his daughter Michal loved David, Saul became still more afraid of him, and he remained his enemy the rest of his days (1 Samuel 18:28-29). 1. But skip ahead two decades and Michal despises David in her heart. I wonder if you enjoy biblical art like I do? Its in the seemingly little acts, that we too can change our world. Truth: Our words have the power to help or harm. David ended with a godly blessing for all the people, sent them away with take home boxes of more food. One of the reasons we need to study these women is so that we may more fully understand holistically the man David, and his life: both personal and professional. Our own goodness and wisdom cannot bring us to salvation; only the sacrifice of Jesus Christ can restore our broken relationship with God. We will always fall short. Even after they married, Saul tried to kill David. Get Your Bible Minute in Your Inbox Every Morning. The differences led to the death of the marital love. RtmbNsR `LB@_y4sP f{6JyQT%ku .>"N_LLyzxiV|BO&@VuJl6%xba5 DTi`&j+J XmeV2jBs\dTf5py? {!8MG6V,eUu+`N(@`UbQfx However Sauls jealousy, fear, and a host of other complex evils led the Lets challenge each other to intentionally choose to speak truth in love, kind words, gentle words, encouraging words, words that build up and not tear down. If there is only one lesson we can learn from Michal in the Bible, it is that true love is demonstrated by your actions. Adelman, Rachel. THE CONSEQUENCES Many who begin marriage with a strong faith and love for God I dont know if you caught it, so let me make you aware of it. We dont know at this point. Now Sauls daughter Michal was in love with David, and when they told Saul about it, he was pleased (1 Samuel 18:20). When David is sent by his father to check on them, he volunteers to fight Goliath. Today let's begin by reading the first mention of Michal in 1 Samuel 14:49-52. Who were her parents? Standing at her window, looking down at David being undignified, Michal had every reason to be bitter. David has killed Goliath, thats what everyone is talking about; this young, good-looking guy. Includes cross references, discussion questions, verse by verse commentary, outline, and applications for small groups. Thus, in the end, this is no fairytale romance. Then there would be no criticism. He was not the kind of father to nurture his child in building a relationship with God. When Michal was given to Paltiel, there is no record of David having such an emotional reaction. Some manuscripts therefore read Merab in place of Michal, for Merab was the wife of Adriel. When you read this again, we see that David wanted Michal back. David cried Oh God, save me, save my life. God lovingly did save him and God used Michal to deliver David from certain death. He was about to be reunited him were sarcastic. He has on the linen garment of a priest and hes out front right behind the ark, leading the people in worship and singing and dancing. To blame God for mans shortcomings is almost equivalent to reducing God to an imperfect being. He wandered in the wilderness. While David was playing the lyre, 10 Saul tried to pin him to the wall with his spear, but David eluded him as Saul drove the spear into the wall. a. Insight's Old Testament Handbook: A Practical Look at Each Book, Insight's Bible Application Guide: IsaiahMalachiA Life Lesson from Every Chapter, Gods Masterwork, Volume Four: An Invitation to ReturnA Survey of HoseaMalachi. was marked with superstition, formality, and coldness. Is Physical Abuse Biblical Grounds for Divorce? One of the most important things that must be done in marriage is that a spouse must realign their allegiance. Was she happy with him? Evidently claim Michal as his wife (18:27). Just to be clear, Saul wasnt pleased because he loved David and thought he would be a great son-in-law. This wasnt about Davids worship. She has not seen his hand of provision. from the capitol. However, Saul is not going to give up without a fight and a plan. We dont know, but we do her husband Paltiel deeply loved her and was devastated when she was taken from him. Store; Bibles; Deals; More; As low as $2.92/mo. Michal is identified as Sauls daughter, for she speaks as the representative of her fathers house, and, by doing so, forfeits her role in the house of King David. (v. 16) Despised means to regard with contempt, distaste, disgust, or disdain, scorn, loathe. (Websters Dictionary). During this period, while Israel was imploding from the effects of evil and unfaithful leadership, Judah seemed on a roller-coaster rideascending to the heights of its destiny in one generation, only to fall into the doldrums in another. He alone is able to bring joy from suffering, hope from affliction, and life from death. New York: 2000. David faced a number of personal attacks from King Saul but escaped Another reason is that we can learn life lessons from them. Michals life is a contrast between loving someone so much that you risked your life to protect them and then later in life despising them so much you try to destroy them with your critical words.

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